Michael follows Zoey Everywhere! He's her little groupie. She is his protector as well as his tormenter. If he has it, she wants it. If she has it, he wants it. Sharing is a tough thing to teach - Any advice is wonderful!
We've all had a tough 9 months. Our little family has felt trauma and emotion in a larger quantity than some feel in a life time. Zoeys 3rd Birthday was on December 10th and We wanted so badly to have her be #1 for just 1 whole day. She was definitely spoiled with gifts and love and she even had a princess birthday party. She was definitely a princess for a day. That evening Mike was sick and his color had been off for about a week. His color began to turn more purple moment by moment and again we made the trip to the ER at Childrens Aurora. During that drive I struggled with so many emotions. First off leaving Zoey on her birthday. Secondly, the thought that this could be it. This could be that moment that his heart gives out and needs his valve replacement surgery. That was the busiest I have ever seen a hospital. After we arrived Michaels color looked great and he was playing with us and having fun. But after waiting for an hour we finally said something and they didn't even have us set in the system. They got us in right away and ran every test they could think of and couldn't find what was causing this episode. They didn't see the discoloration as it had cleared up once we arrived. His mood was good and he was eating great. They did a blood test, an Xray, an EKG, And an Echo and found that everything was as good as it has been. As scary as it is not to have an answer, the fact that Michael was ok right then was everything I needed to hear. We got home the next morning at about 4:30am and I cannot describe the feeling I felt other than saying it was the worst hang over of my life. The rush so many emotions, good and bad, coming and going so quickly was more than our bodies could handle on no sleep. Another one of the hardest nights of my life.
For New Years I prayed for a less stressful year. For peace and calming. Seeing as the world didn't end this could actually be possible, Right? I got to spend New Years Eve at my moms and fell asleep well before midnight. I felt so old but wanted to sleep so bad! After breakfast we went home and we could not believe what had happened while we'd been gone. One of the neighbors up the street and struck Jarons car that was parked in front of our house. The back was smashed in and the driver side tail light was gone. There was no note, no message, and no one around. AGH! Our neighbor who is, thank heavens, a police officer was able to give me the non emergency number to call in to and him and his wife stayed with us to assess the damage. As we stood in front of the car, a girl came from up the street to admit what she had done (while driving her boyfriends car) and we were able to get her information and Thankfully!!!! he had insurance. This morning the car was declared totaled and next week they'll be towing it and we'll be looking for another car. It all happened so fast it doesn't seem real. I made sure I thanked her for coming forward. It had to be hard seeing us all surrounding the car so upset. But, she did it. Wow. People are still good. Even if it takes them a little longer to pull themselves to their feet and admit that they are capable of wonderful things. This year I challenge everyone to pay it forward. We've been given so much this last year that it makes me feel the need to give back in any way possible. Give to others even if it's a smile. You never know when someone needs to see a good spirit.
Happy New Years Everyone!